WHAT COMES AROUND

 

Last week my daughter called to say that she had treated herself to a birthday present. She had pierced her nose. What?

I ask myself why I am mildly discomforted by this news. Is it because I object to facial decoration? (Not when it enhances beauty.) Do I find it to be inappropriately other-cultural? (But I embrace all cultural manifestations on earth.) Too exotic for my sweet Noelle? (She has evolved into a creative, strong woman.) No, No, and No.

Then what? I think it is because with the passing of time we have swiveled about a circumference, like hands on a clock, she and I, and somewhat traded places. I was at high noon when she was swinging out of childhood, and now she has ascended and I am winding down.

Is it a fact that as the old get very old they become more childlike, and the children eventually become their parents? I’m not that ancient yet, but there is a fragility, I must admit, with the passing of time and while I’m far from needing my diapers changed, I’m less likely these days, to strike out above the norm.

In my youth and young adulthood I was the rebel, the high school girl who wore black tights when most were still in panty hose.

I rose to a state of fervor with issues of social injustice. Thank you Mom. I dropped out of a sorority in favor of Scripters and Thespians – my two main endeavors in high school. And I embraced the march for civil rights as if I had been a big sister of the three little girls killed in Birmingham.

I marched and sat-in as a divorced mom of two when my children hurrahed each evening that “Mother wasn’t arrested today!”

I longed for the Bohemian life of Anais Nin and, like her, kept a journal. And when my first marriage ended, I embraced much of the new wave of consciousness. I was not the typical All American Mom. But I did bake cookies. And I always embraced our heritage and fostered values and exposed them to the arts and attempted to open all doors of perception.

During this period my daughter, Noelle joined the Luther League at Our Saviors Church. She seemed the perfect child, a slightly shy, sensitive young lady. I never once had to worry about what high-jinks she might be up to.

 

Yet she was so much more than that. She came into this world with heightened senses of nature and inner-seeing. She was my faery, changling baby. She was strong and opinionated as only a child of mine could expect to be, but she always stood in the light of kindness. When her brother succumbed to Aids, she became his main caregiver for over 10 years, setting aside her own life in the process.

 

In this continuum, I am the one now going to church (be it Unitarian Universalist) and my daughter has moved on to the practice of cranial sacral massage and polarity therapy, sacred dance and all that is entailed with a life of mind-body-spirit.

I celebrate her decision. We have switched positions. But still remain the same. And I will take a picture of her with her new piercing when she comes to visit at Christmas.

 

 

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HAPPY RETURNS

 

I’ve never made a fuss about birthdays. Most years I hoped to slip on through before anyone noticed. This year I’ve received enough attention that I might as well just fess up and celebrate. (And that’s not to say that you should slide into make-up mode if you forgot or didn’t know in the first place. Please.)

My overall wish for myself on this return of the day, is that many moments of the year are special. Commemorative. Joyous. My inner-most aspiration is that I strive to make that happen. At times I fail miserably. Fret and fall and fail.

T.M. (also known as Bob or husband) made up a mantra many years ago that we occasionally trot out to spark up a moment. It’s one word. COLOR. And the guideline is that when spoken it snaps you to attention and you see with all your senses whatever pops into view. The continuum of trees across the Otter Tail river. The rosy soft of the bobbing robin. The sunlight splashing blood red across the Tibetan carpet. The lush brown of Cosmo’s fur.

Try it. Color.

And indulge me here. Because I’m going to indulge myself with visions of places in my heart.

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SCRIPTERS

Somewhere between Nimble Thimble and Slide Rule, you will find the group photo of the Wilson High School club called Scripters in the 1956 yearbook. I do not appear because I was out sick the day they took the pictures, but I was a member.

If you look closely you will see John Leonard, second from the right, who became the editor of the New York Times Book Review, along with writing for every prestigious publication in America. That’s the kind of quality our little group harbored and encouraged. Scripters was the most exclusive club on campus, even more so than any uppity sorority or fraternity which thrived amidst and in spite of the academic culture. You didn’t just sign up as if it were Future Farmers of America or even the Philosophy Club. You had to be “asked out” before becoming a member and have your scribblings read and reviewed. I felt privileged to belong.

Yesterday I attended the Lake Region Writer’s Network annual conference in Fergus Falls, Minnesota. I was privileged to attend.

Will Weaver, author of “Red Earth, White Earth,” “A Gravestone Made of Wheat,” and “Memory Boy” (to name a few) was the keynote speaker and also hosted a workshop entitled “How to Make Your Stories Live and Breathe.” And he does.

There were authors selling their books, information on publishing and all things linguistic, highlights of literary events. And there were writers, writers, writers. “What do you write?” “Are you in a writing group.” “Oh, here’s my blog address.” “Are you going to the open mic reading?” “Have you read…?” “Have you heard…?”

It was difficult to decide which groups to attend. “Why Writer’s Need an Author’s Platform” (Linda Lein) or Memoir (Leon Ogroske). “Roadside Poetry” (Paul Carney) or “Point of View” (Ann Schwalboski). All in all there were 18 choices and only four time slots.

My favorite and lucky choice was a workshop entitled “The Art of Description” led by Barry Lane, author of “Walk in their Dust” and “It’s Uphill Most of the Way Down.” I particularly enjoyed his exercise involving the five senses. We were told to use two minutes writing quickly about a scene that represents the Fall season from the standpoint of sight. Then using two minute intervals, rewrite the paragraph from the perspective of sound, then touch, then smell and finally, taste. We ended the exercise by doing a final quick edit, again in two minutes, writing the paragraph using all five senses together.

Here’s my example: (with apologies, but no first-quick-draft excuses)

SIGHT: My backyard is looking naked, embarrassed by the open patches through the trees and shrubs, allowing scattered peeks into life across the street, into the river, denuded of foliage and lush cover which normally envelopes our yard.

SOUND: As I walk across the yard my feet crunch, crack, crunch on dead fallen leaves – surprisingly sharp, overriding even the traffic hum along the street. Woodpeckers squawk and the sprinkler swishes.

TOUCH: I reach down into the pile of newly raked leaves and try to scoop them up into the slick plastic bag. They are sharp and biting against my chilled hands and the early snow flurry has left them sticky and damp.

SMELL: There is an emanation of deep earth, plants at their last gasp, as they reach the end of the growing season. Fetid, old, ready to enhance the compost pile.

TASTE: I pull the spent annuals out of the soil, knocking the dirt from their root ball as I go, and some flies into my mouth. I choke and cough on the earthy filament that coats my throat, tasting silt and sludge.

COMPOSITE: The backyard looks naked, open patches between the towering trees and once dense shrubs. I crunch across the grass, crushing the leaves which litter the lawn, then stoop and scoop them into the slick plastic bag. They cut and bit into my chilled hands, bits of filament flies up and coats my throat, tasting of silt and sludge. The leaves settle into the musky compost, to be returned to earth.

Okay, not publishable. But a good exercise. Now you try.

After the conference a number of us met at The Spot, a local wine and panini bar which holds “open mic” music and readings. That was the intent, but we ending up sitting around two pulled together tables in the back room, talking and talking of – writing. I felt especially priviledged.

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HARRIET SYLVIA

I was certain that Mom would make it to 100 and get the congratulatory letter from the President. She almost did.

All her life she was fit and healthy. Beautiful into her nineties and always the fashionista. Just three years ago, when the J. Jill catalogue would arrive in the mail, she would say to me – “Look in here and see if there is anything that would look cute on me.”

She also liked to proclaim that she was “famous for my earrings and sweaters.” Yes, Mom. In our family you were notable for your amazing collection of earrings and your cute sweaters. And I’m certain that others noticed too.

When she died on July 31, 2010, she had no illnesses, took no medication, and looked to be many years younger than nearly 98. It’s true she was way ahead of the crowd when it came to reveling in and preparing three healthy meals for herself each day and an early proponent of natural supplements. Her favorite activity for many years was striding briskly down Second Street in her beloved Belmont Shore, getting her exercise.

Her amazing health could be attributed to all of the above. But primarily, I believe, it was because she was happy and positive – truly so from the depths of her being – beyond anyone I have ever, ever encountered.

Growing up it was the norm for me to have a mother who might be often glued to CSPAN rather than TV soap operas, following a senate hearing and living aloud her political truths. I accepted as faith that we believed in the principles of “natural health,” using vitamins and herbs long before it became popular. It was not at all weird and unusual to have a mother who would teach herself reflexology, make the best Swedish meatballs, truly believe in angels, revel in everything Christmas or Easter, and always enjoy a nice glass of wine.

As her only child and daughter I now so want to tell her this. How I wish I could spin back time and embrace and appreciate what I so often took for granted.

Harriet Sylvia Pederson Johnson – today you would have been 100. I couldn’t be prouder or love you more.

 

SKOL!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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CIRCLE OF FIBER

 

I returned last week to Northcroft, the sheep farm owned by Joanie and Dave Ellison just outside of Pelican Rapids, Minnesota. I was last there on a wintry February day to witness and help (for what it was worth) with their annual sheep shearing.

And on a beautiful, unusually warm end to September, they held their annual fall Fiber Day which drew some 40 women and a few men. All for the love of fiber.

There is an archetypal paradigm about the idea of a circle of women coming together to create. To knit, to spin, to stitch. It is powerful and comforting at the same time. I took my little piece of a half-finished potholder as my part of the day, but mostly I watched and listened.

I knew only a few of the participants – Meg and Joanie and Katy and Kate and Marguerite – and I felt a bit of an interloper for my inexperience in all matters of the craft, but I absorbed the companionship and came away refreshed and enlivened. A circle of women is a powerful thing.

Meg and Katy spinning –

                                       The Weaving Spot –

The felting table –

Joanie stoking the fire –

Stirring the dye pot –

Drying the yarn –

Joanie says it best in the conclusion of her book, “From Sheep to Shawl, Stories and Patterns for Fiber Lovers” –

“On fiber days, people make new friends and renew old friendships. They share their skills with newcomers. Don’t you know how to spin? There’s always an open wheel to try out. Problems with the collar on your sweater? One of the expert knitters will have advice or a new pattern. Interested in color but unsure of how to begin dying? The dye pots are always going, with lemon lime Kool-Aid, or onion skins or one of the brilliant commercial dyes.

The fiber workers have brought me a new kind of community, one of shared interests, rather than the more common definition of community as people who share the same space. Politics aside, hometown aside, career aside, fiber people gather because they love the soft slide of wool fibers through their fingers as they spin raw wool into yarn, or the surprise when they pull an ordinary skein of yarn from the woad dye pot and it changes color from green to blue. Fiber people gather because of a shared love of fiber, because of shared experiences.

On fiber days, people walk the fields to see the flock, pick Common Mullein for dying, or willow for baskets. They share food and conversation, taking a day out of time to add another shot of weft to the fabric of their lives with a thread that connects them to other women, other fiber artists, back through time and into the future, learning and teaching, sharing and absorbing, but mostly doing.”

Thank you Joanie. “From Sheep to Shawl” was printed by the Wandering Minstrel Press. You can also find her book, “Shepardess: Notes From the Field” on Amazon Books.

 

 

 

 

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HOMELAND INVASION

 

We are currently being invaded by small creatures. And not in the garden, which would be bad enough, but in the house – hundreds of live and dead bodies about the windows, climbing the walls, and all within our living spaces. Welcome to Minnesota in the fall.

This domestic drama all began with the wasps. After trapping seemingly hundreds each day in our sweet juice-filled hanging bell in the garden, they just kept coming and coming and eventually came inside. Every day since, I have vacuumed the bodies strewn about the sills and floor while swatting still active buzzers.

In the trap –

On the Hummer Feeder –

However do they get in? I can see a teensy crack beside the portable air conditioner in the downstairs window. One small possibility, but hardly probable given their numbers. And why do they then, for the most part, just up and die?

In research desperation mode, I discovered that one nest may contain several thousand wasps. No wonder we couldn’t kill them all. There are 100,000 species of this annoying pest and farmers actually like them because they eat disreputable bugs and caterpillars.  I am a fan, it’s true, of what is called “integrated pest management” in horticultural circles, but we are not a farm and my garden is still small.

Whether they be yellow jackets, paper wasps or hornets, they are able to squeeze beneath baseboards, under window and door frames, through light fixture and ventilators, as well as gable vents in attics. A credible achievement. The queens need to over winter in a warm location, so that may attest for the handful of inside survivors. All the rest die off to be replaced next spring with new fertilizations.  I’m guessing the multitude of dead bodies represent courtiers who have accompanied Her Royal Highness for the long winter nap.

So that’s one mystery solved.

Last year in my innocence, I noticed the arrival of what I thought was the proverbial lady bug and oohed and aahed a bit, remembering the tale which entreats her to “Fly away, fly away home. Your house is burning and your children are gone. All but one and her name is Ann, and she crept under the pudding pan.”

But of course, now I know that our home on Mt. Faith has never been invaded by sweet Ann and her brothers, sisters and mom. Not this, the lady bug of story, myth and gardener’s  delight who aids in the eradication of aphid and scale. The Asian cousins, unfortunately imported in 1916 in an attempt to control pests, might happily lap up the nasty plant vermin as well, but they also break into domiciles without invitation or courtesy in the Fall.

And they were no help at all in controlling the horrid red aphids which claimed my three nepetas all summer, in spite of a daily burst of garden water from the hose.

Now I know.

And they’re not alone in their break and enter. Even more invasive is the Box Elder Bug which, after sunning in large aggregations for months upon the maple and ash and elder, force ingress, also in order to over-winter. One interloper, just now as I type, is crawling upon the computer screen. Another buzzes about my head. A third actually falls, plop, into my wine glass.

In my Googling I discovered that they are particularly attracted to buildings standing taller than others. Check. And that they will become more active and particularly cozy when the winter chill requires us to turn up the inside heat. Uf Dah!

In the meantime, I need to keep reminding myself that at least (being this IS Minnesota) it isn’t grasshoppers. And I need to buy more vacuum bags.

UGH!

 

 

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THE SOURCE

“. . . a spring, fountain, that is the starting point of a stream . . . that from which something comes or develops . . . place of origin” – Webster’s New World Dictionary

Many nights of my childhood I would scrunch my mind shut, tight against the endless buzz in my head to stop the puzzlings about the beginning of the world. My Sunday School teacher at Our Savior’s Lutheran Church had me line the first chapter of my King James Version With Helps in red, up and down the whole first page so that I could recite in part the highlights. I received a bookmark entitled “Most Beautiful Chapters” for my efforts. It’s still there, stuck between the pages of the black buckram Bible I received in 1947.

To my young brain these verses only posed more questions and didn’t help one whit the confusion about “In the beginning” and “let there be-s” and “seeing it was good.”  If our world was truly eternal, I should be able to imagine the scope of it all, I reasoned. In the dark I would visualize a point in time, see it lit and bright, and force the nebula again and again to extend back into space – keep going, keep going, keep going. In vain. Hard as I tried, I could never imagine infinity.

Where indeed was that elusive starting point, the wellspring of life, the magical place of origin? I will admit that if I let my mind run amuk and unencumbered today, I am right back in the dark of my little girl brain, stuck with the mystery of the proverbial chicken and the egg. But then, Aristotle floundered there too. And others down the centuries.

Was there really a garden in the beginning of time? Lush and primeval, filled I would guess, with horticultural exotics – horsetail and wild orchids, maidenhair fern, every variety of climbing vine and yes, datura, psychedelic Angel’s Trumpet.

And what of the Void? I can still hear astrophysicist Carl Sagan intoning on television some years ago, about the cosmos and the billions and billions of stars in our galaxy and beyond. Where in God’s heaven is the source, then, and how might we ever find the way and the truth?

We’re here in a flash and gone, a nano-blink in a greater scheme or maybe chaos, and never to know outside the bonds of faith, where it all began. Push as I might, I never saw the source.

But this past weekend we went to the headwaters of the great Mississippi River, which some might be surprised to learn bubbles up in the north central portion of Minnesota, and I felt heartened and excited to see and discover this one small piece of continuum.

A real and tangible source of something, if only earthbound, mighty and grand. A river which runs for over 2300 miles and is included along with the Amazon, the Ganges, the Nile and the Yangtze as one of the great rivers of our world. A raindrop, it is said, that falls at these headwaters will eventually exit the Gulf of Mexico 90 days later. And it all begins at Itasca State Park just a few hours from our new home in Minnesota.

It doesn’t solve the grander question, the childhood quest, but it does give me a modicum of earthly satisfaction.

I have been to the source.

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HOT DISH

 

The Lasagna Method in garden-ese reduces the amount of digging needed to start a new perennial or vegetable bed. In other words – you cover the old growth or sod with layers, wait, and plant.

“Lasagna” is the name given to this technique by a Master Gardener, Meleah Maynard, in an article printed in a recent edition of Northern Gardener. It was used again, just this week by our own Master Gardener in Otter Tail County, Bev Johnson, in her weekly column. Whether one of them coined the moniker or borrowed it from a new horticultural technique and fad, I have no idea. But evidently it has become a nouveau trendy tip for preparing the soil for planting.

I went that route last summer, simply because my cousin Marlene told me how she always created her beds. I don’t know the provenance, but I know it works.

My only issue here in Minnesota is in calling it lasagna. I vote for Hot Dish.

There was a time when I thought nothing of digging up all the grass with my own little shovel. Who needs sod when there are flowers and vegetables to grow. New plants to possess. Garden dreams to actualize.

That time is long gone. Gone with the days of a younger back and stronger physical constitution. So the Hot Dish Method suits me just fine.

It entails positioning the new bed with a garden hose, curving and snaking the lines until it looks just right. Plopping down newspaper, five to ten sheets thick, watering, covering with topsoil and compost – 4 to 6 inches preferably, and covering it all with mulch – 3 to 4 inches.

I did all this at the beginning of summer and planted immediately, digging down with enthusiastic haste through the layers of newspaper with some difficulty. But it worked. And the plants seemed happy and thrived.

Of course I got some extra help –

Just this week I started my new perennial bed which will be ready next spring and the breakdown of sod and the settling in of amendments should make the task all that much easier.

I’m dreaming about a Prairie Fire Crab Apple in the middle, slightly to the left. Surrounded by drifts of monarda (bee balm) and asclepias (milkweed). I gravitate to all the butterfly and bee attractants. Definitely penstemon and salvias. Joe Pye Weed and Jacob’s Ladder. And . . .

I just might need another Hot Dish bed to the north. Takke fur maten.

 

 

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HERITAGE

I’ve been chasing after my past for as long as I can remember, hurtling ethereally backwards to catch a fleeting glimpse of what it meant to be me. All those ghosts I never knew, and a few I did, who lent their DNA and the traits of their gene pool, just so I would be here now. I long to know them.

Since moving back to ancestral territory this past year, the yearning has intensified. Most everyone in California exists in a multi-cultural stew, a mish mash of past history that blurs the lines and dims significance. But here in Minnesota there are serious roots all about and it’s expected  that your “greats” and even your grandparents came, most likely from Norway, and settled in and you, now, have inherited whatever they wrought – be it land, looks or personality.

Oh yes. Now I get it as I look in the mirror. They talk fast and laugh a lot and buzz with some inner intensity. My North Dakota cousins. They are precise, good hearted, somewhat worrisome and want to nail perfection. Those three Minnesota girls. And so much more.

Of the elders, there was Grandma Marie who basically raised me. The others remain a mystery. A few weeks ago I had an opportunity to unearth the past when I encountered an elderly woman at a social event and realized that our grandmothers were sisters. “Tell me,” I excitedly implored, “was your grandma as sweet as mine was?”  Long silence. And then she said, “Well, that’s another story.” Oops. “Well,” I nervously persisted, “I know her real name was Kerstin like our great-grandma, their mother, but did you call her Kjestie like my grandma did?” Silence. Then – “I called her Grandma.” End of story.

Now my interest is piqued more than ever. What was that about? What family dark and murky inter-weavings prompted such an unusual, terse, response to what might have been reminiscence, tales of the past and familial connection? We could have giggled and swapped tales. We could have hugged with mutual empathy. We could have parted with a renewed and happy appreciation for our entwined past. This story of our grandmothers is now a mystery I want to crack.

In the meantime, I literally took pieces of my roots and planted them on Mt. Faith, hoping that Marie and Pauline and Elen will somehow understand that I want to know them better, that I long to have them know me, that I hold their memory dear and I wish for their sweet spirits to inhabit my garden.

It was not an easy task to dig up planting holes for their peonies. The top eight inches of soil at Mt. Faith was pitifully bereft of nutrients and the next six inches was pure yellow clay. It took some major huffing and hefting and amending to provide a new home for pieces of my past. But I/we did it last week.

First we went to Hickson, North Dakota to the home of my grandparents Johnson, John and Pauline. Aunt Lil lives there now. By the side of the old two story house, I dug up pieces of three peonies planted by Grandma Pauline – red, pink and white. I was nervous and edgy about the task. Anxious not to make a mess or harm the mother plants. And cautious of shoveling just the right amount of root with three, preferably five eyes attached.

From there we went to the old Hemnes Cemetary where John’s father and mother are buried to dig up a piece of the peony planted by Great Grandma Elen. I don’t know the color.

And then to Clara Cemetary in Comstock, Minnesota where my darling Grammy Marie planted two peonies – red and pink – on the grave of her husband Kristofers Johan, who died of tuberculosis in 1914, leaving her a widow with four children, my mother only 18 months. “What a good man he was,” she always told me. “Everyone in town said he was the kindest man they had ever known.”

We took our tagged plastic bags back to Mt. Faith where I planted them in my new peony beds on either side of T.M.’s arbor and just across the path. I washed them off and counted the eyes, added a huge dollop of peat moss and buried them carefully, making sure that the nodules were not more than two inches beneath the new amended soil. I talked to the ladies as I worked, Marie and Pauline and Elen. I told them I loved them and wanted to carry a piece of them forward and I thanked them for my heritage.

JOHN ARENT AND PAULINE PAULSETH JOHNSON

AUNT LIL’S HICKSON HOME – Pauline’s peonies at right.

Jorgen Jacob and Elen Arent Johannesen with their children Randine, Johanna, John, and Jorginse

Gravestone of Jorgen and Elen – Hemnes Cemetary

Digging up a piece of the peony –

KRISTOFFER JOHAN AND MARIE JONSON PEDERSON

PEONIES IN BLOOM – CLARA CEMETARY

First plantings in the new garden on Mt. Faith amid T.M.’s new arbor, Grandma Pauline on the right, Grandma Marie on the left, Great Grandma Elen across the path.

May the heritage be continued . . .

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MINNESOTA LIFE SCIENCE 101

You can bet you’re in Minnesota when the annual edition of the Adult Education Class schedule begins with the following first choice
under the Food Category – “Follow the Bone – Deer Cutting.” Furthermore, it promises the basic skills of field dressing, “skinning and cleaning of the carcass as well as how to cut your deer, from pulling back straps for chops, to the hind for roasts, and jerky and trim for ground venison.”

In the General Interest Category, listed right after “Coupon Workshop” is a class entitled “Firearms Carry and Renewal Class.” The explanation stipulates that the student must be at least 21 years of age and promises to cover morals, ethics and tactics (?) but specifically states that “the student is responsible for providing his/her own firearm and ammunition (50 rounds).”

Smack in the middle of “Holiday Cookies” and “Nutrition for Seniors” is my favorite and personal nemesis – “Lefse.” I know from experience that the technique and secret of this class involves a lot of cursing and throwing about of flour. But that’s another story.

And finally – under World Languages the first and only entry is Norwegian!

In spite of the fact I was raised by two people who spoke English as a second language, my Norwegian/Swedish language skills are miniscule at best. At age seven I tried to make a little dictionary of my own. “Grammy,” I would plead as I penciled in a tiny notebook, “how do you say – please make me some cocoa with marshmallows on top?” I was a scholar geek even then and truly wanted to learn the language of my roots, especially the important phrases. Mom and Grandma however, seemed not as interested in teaching me these skills, and I always suspected that the underlying motive lay in their ability to “talk over my head.”

However my godfather Norman, who was born in Bergen, taught me to say “Kan du snakker Norsk, Far?” (Can you speak Norwegian, Father?) at an early age. It was to be a surprise I would trot out when meeting my father coming down the gangplank after one of his sea voyages.

Of course I grew up with lots of “takks” (thanks) – tusan takk, mange takk, takk fur maten – the last one being “thanks for the food.” And then there was Velkommen and God Jul – most everyone knows those, and the most important of all – SKAL! – which came in handy with many toastings over Shirley Temples.

That’s about it except for “Uff Da! which it turns out, is pretty much untranslatable. Whenever I would ask my mother to explain, she would just laugh and say something like, “Oh I don’t know. In English it wouldn’t be funny. But it just is.” People in Minnesota regularly trot is out and seem to feel better for it. One person explained that in a way it was similar to Charlie Brown’s exclamation of “Good Grief!” One thing is certain – “Uff Da” has a sound that perfectly matches an emotion.

My Norwegian vocabulary, then, includes only the ability to ask if someone speaks what I do not, comes in handy for the purposes of eating or drinking, and expounds on something funny but untranslatable.

Maybe I should take the class.

VELKOMMEN

TAK FUR MATEN

GOD JUL

SKOL!

UFF DA!

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