MIDWEST MEMORIAL

We woke in the night to explosions in the sky and Big Bang Minnesota Thunder, so it was at first a bit iffy as to whether the skies would cooperate for the gathering at the Lower Wild Rice and Red River Cemetery this morning.

It’s a unique and moving experience to participate in Memorial Day in a small town.  I’m sure there are comparables in the west, but even the American Legion Service Officer who gave the address in the basement hall of the Lutheran Church in Wolcott, North Dakota today, noted that participation out in the country cemeteries was far greater than even in Fargo.

We drove this a.m. first to Hickson with Aunt Lil and cousins Debbie and Rick where I put my first picked lilacs from the yard on the gravestone of my father.  His name was the first to be read – a veteran who died right after the second world war.

Lilacs for Daddy

Our family, in fact,  could lay claim to the most veterans in that small country cemetery – Uncle Earl, Uncle Billy and cousin Chuck.

There were commemorative prayers of course, and the always impressive rifle shots at the end, by some old-school and elder veterans.  It was my opportunity to meet and re-meet some of the locals who recalled my Mom as a young girl and Henry Nelson playing his accordian in the summer evenings.

From there we went to Wolcott and had more testimonials and music in the church hall and partook of scalloped potatoes and ham and corn with a multitude of pies.  This is one of the reasons that we moved to this sweet and pure little slice of Americana.  Again, I love California with it’s hip and cutting-edge ways, but this is a return to roots and all that is great and good about community and trust and decency.

And beyond that and more specifically – It’s all about family.

In Memorium to Harriet, Effie, Chuck and Sarah

Johnson's looking down from above

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DINNER IS SERVED

New dining station

Mills Fleet Farm is a big box store unknown before to us.  Perhaps it’s a mid-western thing.  But I can say that it has the best bird supply section imaginable.  I’m not through yet, but we made a good go of it.  Two shepard’s hooks and seven feeder stations, accommodating sunflower, thistle and mixed wild seed as well as suet and oranges and grape jelly for the (hopefully) orioles which are also supposed to abound.  So far the round white fuzzy ball on the left has been the most popular.  It’s nest yarn.  The goldfinch’s are mad for it and I promise to provide a few more for their spring housekeeping activities. Without my old reliable and familiar bird books I am somewhat at a loss, but I did purchase a new “Birds of the Great Plains” and so far (besides the cardinal which was our first sighting) I have been able to identify the American Goldfinch, a Grackle, the Robin of course, and  in the meantime I’m scrambling from the binoculars to the book to my notes to my reading glasses and back again.  It’s a whole new bird world here.

We noticed a Mallard hanging out by the small pond the past few days.  There are hundreds a few blocks away at the bend in the Otter Tail River and I suspected he was just a stray visitor.

Nestling by the side of the pond

Splendor in the Grass

But this morning as I walked across the grass to measure the small raised bed for tomato plantings, I was surprised to see that he and a lady friend were swimming in the pond and making themselves quite at home.  It’s possible that they will contaminate the eco-balance with their poop, but I was delighted to see them.

We did our own “settling in” to a degree and Robert actually went to his first garage sale.  Passed on the very excellent claw-foot oak table with 4 leafs, and that was hard to do as the price was also excellent, but we decided that we need not go TOO Victoriana but we settled for the very nice chairs, one of which is serving me very nicely now at the computer.  Better than a box.  And who could pass up a Wedgewood – made in England – Blue Willow platter for 25 cents.

And then we did our own “dining” in Battle Lake – 17 miles from Fergus Falls, at the Shoreline Restaurant and Lanes.

It was a wild family scene with honestly good food and our waitress said – you guessed it – “You Betcha!”

Not my "cup of tea" annuals, but SO COLORFUL!

On the way home we stopped at the local nursery which made me swoon it was so wondrous and bought tomatoes and chives and thyme and some ornamental grasses to make our Mallard couple feel right at home. I know we are.

Home Sweet Home

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YOU BETCHA

Garrison Keilor was not kidding.   People in Minnesota actually say “You betcha”.  Another thing they regularly say is “Yep”.  I’m still waiting for “Okey Dokey”, which is my all time favorite and an expression that I use regularly, and actually hired a waitress at our Mirage Restaurant on the basis of her brandishing that very phrase.

One of our first “You Betcha’s” occurred when we went to the Minnesota version of the DMV.  If you’re now in California, or have ever been unfortunate enough to have had the experience of standing in one of the interminable lines in one of those offices, taking a number and feeling a bit like cattle, you will appreciate what occurred when we found our way into the local office offering either vehicle, fishing or hunting licenses.  First of all, there were no lines.  And there were no people.  Just the pleasant two ladies behind the counter, beckoning us on and asking how they could please help us?  After our quandary about possibly wandering into the wrong venue, we were assured – “you betcha” that we were indeed in the right office.

We then proceeded to become new best friends with our DMV representative, who shared her life story as well as becoming totally acquainted with the process of our transformation from California to Minnesota.  And it happened again with Bill who set up our phone/internet/tv bundling at Otter Tail Telcom.  And Donna at Bank and Trust who helped us through our new checking account, and even with the two great guys from the city who appeared one afternoon with the trash container and spent 20 minutes filling me in on all the neighborhood gossip.  Not to mention clerks at the Service Grocery and even (excuse me) the local Wallmart.   I am really feeling like Dorothy when she said to Toto – “I don’t think we’re in Kansas anymore!”

That is not to berate my home state of California, where as I’ve said repeatedly, my Mom as a bride in the 30’s thought she’d “died and gone to heaven” and as a native girl I value and feel throughout my bones that I AM a Californian and I so appreciate the childhood and upbringing I had within the bounds of the sun and the surf and its open door policy and the wide range of options it afforded.  I would not be who I am today without that particular slant and I embrace its universality.

Yet here we are approaching Memorial Day.  And it is so dear and appropriate.

I’m looking forward on Monday to going to the graveyard in Hickson, North Dakota with Aunt Lil and honoring my father and Uncle Earl and cousin Chuck.  You betcha.

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LAWN

Lawns are really important here.  We started to get the picture after two of my cousin’s first question after – Did you get there okay?” – was “How is the lawn? Does it need mowing?”  And then, when we went to Uncle Ralph’s 89th birthday party there was quite a bit of talk about dandelions and new mowers (Signature being the optimal and exciting purchase, whatever that is).  My long ago happy time, as you may have previously seen, was taking a spin on Uncle Arnold’s Case mowing tractor and that, of course, was because Uncle Lawrence represented and sold that brand “on the road” even though it was John Deere territory.

1970's at the Nelson's

Kevin's turn

And Noelle -

Even Harriet got into the mowing spirit!

Here at Mt. Faith, after four days of listening to the roar of neighboring ride-ons, we realized that it was most important not be seen as recalcitrant, tacky Californians and get with the program before we were judged to be a disgrace to the neighborhood.

Turns out that the riding mower which was left here and part of the “deal” has a flat tire and a dead battery.  And beyond that, I’m not sure that I want to see Robert whizzing about the grounds and three-wheeling it down the embankment.  It’s a new priority, this lawn mowing.  In California there is a major push for “water efficiency gardens” and that basically means that the goal is to have NO GRASS.  And we had NO grass at Castenada Lane.  And only minor patches here and there in other locales.  In fact, I usually dug it all up and planted it with perennials and roses.  So this is a new venue.  Of course in California water is Gold.  And we know what happened to King Midas with his greed.  But here the water literally rains down from the sky all summer.

Well – thank goodness for Blair, who came highly recommended and shot around the grounds, not just on a “riding mower” but on a jet-propelled Standing Lawn Chariot.  I’ve never seen anything like it. And he was gone in a flash and I presume, that he will return some day for his gratuity.  And hopefully will continue to mow and better yet, snow blow!   This IS Minnesota, where you go into the gas station to present your credit card before pumping and they look puzzled because they don’t need your card until you have actually pumped!

This evening after dinner, we decided to walk down the road to get a better view of the Otter Tail River.

A peek of the Otter Tail

And just a block from our house we came upon a small trail leading along a creek.

Are we intruding?

If the water hadn’t been raining beautifully down from the sky we would have explored further, but  instead we decided to leave it for another day and we returned home to enjoy our newly immaculate lawn.

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PHOTO JOURNEY

From the time we “closed the deal” and made the commitment to create a new life on Mt. Faith until the time we actually arrived,  encompassed nine months!  How’s that for perfect symbolism?  And the whole process was truly so very much like a birth of sorts.  I definitely felt morning sickness at times.  And great elation and expectation at others.  I kept repeating the phrase from Stephen Sondheim’s “Into the Woods” and feeling utterly at times just like Little Red Riding Hood who declared that she was “excited AND scared”.  That has been ME from day one of the gestation period until the arrival, these nine months later, at Mt. Faith.

The “getting here” was a sometimes stressful and often wondrous process. Just like birth.  It was up, it was down, it was frankly at times, more than I could compute.   We deliberated, we planned, we re-designed and imagined without full knowledge of what we really had or were going to experience once the new life began.  Or rather, I did.  Robert it seems has been full steam and assured from the get-go.

We fully intended to make it a once-in-a-lifetime vacation once the due date arrived, but in the end, some inner homing instinct pushed us on with greater speed than we had intended.  And yet, that didn’t hamper the glorious sights along the road and what will remain memorable hits and misses.

Here is our photo journal to fill in the visual story of our journey.

Tsuda Cafe and Bakery - Auburn, California

Gold Country, Gateway to the Sierras - Auburn, California

Over the Sierra Nevadas in May?

Sierra Sky

Nevada never disappointed

Casino - Elko, Nevada, across from our motel

Yankee Doodle Cafe - Alpine, Wyoming

The Grand Tetons from a distance

Our "alternate route" OVER the Tetons!

A chilly Yellowstone with Old Faithful only puffing!

Herd of buffalo (with baby) meandering along the highway

Big Boys passing the car

1950's motel - Gardiner, Montana - with Marine Corp. Flag

Yellowstone Mine Cafe, Montana

Fabulous Quartz wall - Yellowstone Mine Cafe

Closeup

And finally the highlight of our journey – the Painted Canyon at the Theodore Roosevelt National Park in North Dakota.  Take my word.  GO THERE!

The best of Mother Earth!

JOURNEY COMPLETE.

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A WORD FROM ROBERT

Unloading on Mt. Faith

The caravan might be new favorite car.  Raced through wind and rain over hill (the Sierras, the Tetons) and dale, 22-25 mpg, less than a pint of oil, never mind 140,000 + miles. What a trooper! Speaking of which, Cosmo was nearly perfect, hardly a whimper and no fuss.  And Fergus is still our absolute favorite city. beautiful and SO friendly.  The house is a bit disappointing in it’s details, but the grounds are in full amazing bloom and the song birds are heaven sent.  All good. loving everything.

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GARDEN NOTES

New day.  New garden.  Aah!  I feel like the proverbial kid in the candy store.  Time after time I have eked out a garden armed only with grim determination and a much younger back than I now possess. Often in soil that didn’t really want to bend to my will.  And often on slopes that defied wheelbarrows and required what I called “bucketing”.  Or meant being a slave to the Irrigation God.

It’s heaven then to look out every window and feel as if I’m in my own little private park.  The “bones” are definitely there and the possibilities are making my head swim.  I need a tree book!  I need a Minnesota horticultural guide!  I need a plan.  And yet, how wondrous to know that if I do absolutely nothing, the garden is perfect just as it is. 

Japanese Maple under ? tree

The most exciting find which really made my heart sing was to discover that the tall hedges which border two sides of the property were actually Lilacs.  HUNDREDS OF LILACS.  And at Castenada Lane I nursed along one President Lincoln which only bloomed (begrudgingly) after 5 years of codling and lost the second to a gopher.

One of hundreds!

Another great surprise, popping up here and there – the Columbine.

Columbine and Hostas

I couldn’t grow Hostas to save my soul in California.  They’re “weeds” in Minnesota – all varieties.

California Heron among the Minnesota Hostas

I’m thinking that the scrubs to the left, alongside the house are bush Dogwood, but who can identify the intertwined “reds” to the right?

I’m suspecting that if I do nothing but sit back and enjoy, this garden will be perfect just as it is.  And yet –

For one thing, there must be vegetables.  Especially tomatoes.  And if I’m amused now to look out the window and see the cute brown bunny hopping about and eating the dandelions, there may be a declaration of war down the line.  In the meantime, it feels like I inherited Paradise.

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DAY SIX, SEVEN, AND EIGHT

WE ARE HERE!  However it has been a few days in limbo – without phone or internet – and only a foam pad on the floor and this and that to make the merest semblance of a home.  An odd feeling.  Neither this nor that.  I believe it will be all right,  but there is much to consider before the moving van arrives, maybe in a week,  and what looks like a long process of settling in and getting it just right.  But that is Robert’s “good thing”.  He is the master of transformation. And speaking of him – he requested a favorite picture – one that makes him very happy to finally be here.

North Dakota Freeway

After a long, straight drive across the plains of North Dakota, we entered Minnesota on Day Six and finally – We saw the house on Mt. Faith for about ten fast and confusing minutes about 10 months ago.   And frankly, we have been asking ourselves things like – “do you remember what room is at the top of the stairs?” and “were there wood floors or carpet?” and “is there a window in the bathroom?” – so one can see that I was justifiably and truly “excited and scared”.

Up the driveway in the rain

Home

The garden was unbelievably better than I had remembered.

The Back Garden

The heron at his new pond home

The town is splendid.

Downtown Fergus Falls

The work ahead, I suspect, will be challenging, frustrating, thrilling and rewarding in the end.  Tomorrow it begins.

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DAY FIVE

Breakfast at the Yellowstone Mine Cafe (ditto dinner last night) in Gardiner, Montana just outside the north entry to Yellowstone.  I am dumbstruck at the most wondrous inner wall (look for later photo posting) in this rustic restaurant which is decorated with ancient, rusted geological implements – but in a good way.  It is just so brilliant and innovative.  A form contains probably thousands of large segments of quartz crystals which are locally mined and have been slipped, one upon the other and stacked within this open wall so the huge slabs of crystal are visible from both sides.  Hard to describe it is so innovative, but tune in later for pictures and you will be amazed. 

The dinner last night was pricey but good.  I had a nice filet with appropriate and delicately prepared vegetables, but a ludicrous and hard-to-believe baked potato.  It was about the size of a child’s toy football!  I was incredulous.   This isn’t even Idaho (where they sometimes use Boxed Potatoes, as we discovered),  but it didn’t seem like a potato that had grown by Mother Nature in the real world.  IT WAS ENORMOUS!  I am a gardener and have grown my share of potatoes – even ones that delighted and sprang up in the compost pile, but who needs that much starch?

The breakfast this a.m. at the Yosemite Mine was perfect (I’m a french toast connoiseur) and it was a perfect preface to our drive north through lower Montana.  Who wouldn’t want to live there.  But then the skies turned grey and heavy and the wind and rain buffeted the van and the entire stretch across Montana from west to east  was an E ride, to say the least.  

Yet gloriously, just as we crosssed over to North Dakota (ancestral stomping ground!)  the skies parted, as they say, and the heavens were suddenly at their most magnificent and we drove into the old stomping grounds of Teddy Roosevelt who actually said he couldn’t have been President without his North Dakota experience.  I  admonish anyone who elects in their lifetime NOT to go to the North Dakota Badlands, Medora, and the Painted Canyon, that they will have missed a primal and beautious and heart-rending expression of our Mother Earth that is a little known treat.   It made our day.

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DAY FOUR

First I must say that to add insult to injury,  the Comfort Inn, which was anything but, provided a gazillion ants that darted out from one crack in the bathroom floor just as soon as Cosmo began his dinner. So HIS dinner was substandard too.  And they installed an elephant above us who  proceeded to clomp back and forth, every footfall accented as in an Irish dance frenzy, and he must have been in practice mode, for he kept it up seemingly for hours.

But on to Day Four.  Not wanting to chance another culinary mishap, we decided to drive as quickly as possible for the Wyoming border and on to  Jackson, the Tetons, and Yellowstone and  that was fortunate because we did finally have an excellent breakfast in Alpine at the Yankee Doodle Cafe, which was decorated appropriately, as were it’s proprietors – she with a flag adorned jacket, he with similar tattoos.  It was here, however, that we discovered that all the signs pointing to the turnoff for Jackson, Wyoming were blatantly false, as a massive mudslide had closed the road a whole week before.  At this point, unless we veered to the south which would take us far out of the way of the final destination,  there was nothing to be done but turn around and drive back into Idaho, retracing our steps for about 30 miles , and then onto an “alternate route” over a steep and twisty snow-surrounded road which snaked OVER  the Grand Tetons.  Needless to say, the views were grand indeed and it did bring us down, 70 plus miles later, right into Jackson Hole.  Cosmo was not amused with this detour, however, and grand old sport that he had been so far, erupted into whiny, noxious protestations.

Yellowstone is a place that everyone should experience at least once. And it is so vast that there are most likely more places to explore than could be done in a lifetime.  It turns out that “almost June” in Yellowstone is more like the dead of winter in Big Bear California, and we did try to stick around for Old Faithful’s eruption with a small band of shivering diehards and I did so want to take that bubbling geyser loop where Noelle took so many photos in the early 70’s, but our California winter coats proved inadequate and even the properly winter-clad walkers returning to the Old Faithful Inn were muttering “brrr”.

“Brr?”  How does that particular exclamation happen to mean “I’m freezing?”  Shouldn’t it be “Frz”, or even “OMG”!  “Brr!”  We need to practice for Minnesota.  And definitely get proper winter coats.

But the Tetons and Yellowstone are most definitely worth further explorations.  And I have to announce that the buffalo are alive and well within the park.  In fact they stopped our car three times as they meandered in small herds down the roadway.  Once with a baby in tow.

Day Four ends at a classic 50’s motel, the kind you rarely see anymore, with a real key for the door and a Yellow Lab Greeter in Gardiner, Montana.  Onward.

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